Dear KC:

You did the right thing going to his apartment- he could drown being passed out drunk in a tub (if there is water in it), or otherwise he can hurt himself falling on a hard surface.

You did the right thing by him even though he … didn’t express the appreciation and gratitude that you deserve.

I am guessing that he reacted so badly because he is in a bad mental shape and he was embarrassed that you saw him naked and drunk, just like you wrote: “he’s ashamed”.

“what do I do?”- send him a message online, or bring him a card/ letter and place it  in his mailbox, expressing that you care a lot for him, and that you need his friendship, that you are lonely and having trouble with the lockdown, and you need his help, his friendship back.

I hope to read from you again, and I am curious how he will respond if you follow my advice.

anita