Dear Puppo:

You are very welcome.

You understood my question correctly: “what gave him authority to decide if I’m guilty or innocent .. I would say here that he told me he loved me a lot, cared for me.. “-

– so your answer to my question is that what gave him the authority to decide your guilt or innocence is that he told you things, that he said words to you.

If that’s all it takes, then.. anyone who can speak will have authority over your guilt vs. innocence. There is nothing easier than to speak, it takes very little energy to open one’s mouths and make sounds and it doesn’t cost any money. A person can say anything without getting tired and often with no consequence. It is easy to talk.

Let me ask you another question: why is it that you feel that you owe him anything, what did he give you that you feel indebted for?

anita