Dear Jason:

You are welcome. I would like to re-read your original post and the rest of your posts tomorrow morning when I am more focused than I am now and reply to you further then (in about 12 hours from now).

For now I have this input regarding your recent post: I asked you regarding your motivation not as a rhetorical question. It crossed my mind that your motivation might be a romantic interest in her. I am glad that you are not interested in her this way/ hope that you are not,  for your sake.

I think that the more you listen to her drama, the more drama she produces (at least in her story telling)  so to.. entertain herself and her audience: you. But most importantly, the more you listen to her, the more you get a bad taste in your mouth, or more accurately: in your brain.

I am sure she was traumatized/ abused before you met her and dated her ten years ago, but currently she may be abusing another, as is the nature of abuse: the abused proceed to abuse.

If you would like, you can look up histrionic personality disorder. I have no idea if she suffers from that disorder, but you may have a better idea of this is a possibility. You are welcome to post again before I return.

anita

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