Sofat:

You are a 29 year old adult and a teacher. You are pursuing a 17 year old student who attended your class for the purpose of engaging with her sexually and romantically.

It is wrong for an adult to pursue a child/ a person of a minor age (not yet an adult) for sexual and romantic purposes: it is called child sexual abuse. It is very, very wrong.

It is wrong for an adult in position of power, such as a parent, a teacher, a police officer, a priest etc., to misuse that position of power so to take advantage of a child. It is a terrible betrayal of a child’s trust.

Don’t do what is wrong because other people do it, or because you may get away with it (you wrote: “if you don’t spill the beans, no one will find out.. everything should be done in a secret way”), or because you are desperate and lonely (“I was really alone and desperate”).

Your job is to teach your students math or science, some academic subject, not to pursue them for sex and romance. Seek a sexual and romantic relationship with a person who is an adult: considering your age, that would be a person in her twenties or older.

anita

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