Dear Neverdyed:

I decided to answer you earlier. If I understand correctly, you want a formal, committed relationship with him, where you date only him and he dates only you, and you see him regularly. He on the other hand, wants to continue the current casual, not committed relationship with you where he can date other women as well, and see you once in a while.

Your conflict is whether to break up with him or to see him on his terms. Did I understand correctly? Please correct me where I didn’t understand you correctly and I will reply to you further in about 13 hours from now.

anita