Hello Anita, sorry I didn’t quote ur posts. I read them and replied in the recent post.

“If your boyfriend will not marry someone without his parents’ approval, and his parents stated that they will not approve of him marrying someone outside their tribe, and you are indeed someone outside their tribe, then you are indeed wasting your time with him.” I made him confirm and he said they don’t have a problem with it but the problem is really just with him. As much as I would like to know what’s wrong and see if we could fix things he says he doesn’t even know.

“reads to me that he had doubts about the relationship at the time that he lied to you about talking to his sister, that he wanted to communicate to you that there will be no  marriage with you, but didn’t want to tell you directly, so he made up a conversation with his sister, and told you .. indirectly through a made-up conversation with his sister” Yes he has doubts and that was when he told me he doesn’t see a future and stuff.