Dear Jacobus:

“Last year she’s started .. yelling at me, called my job is sh**, can’t make more money, started pushing me away, rejecting me over and over for almost a year.. so few months, I go, I run away”-

-according to your story she abused you and ran away from her. According to your story, you did not abandon her. You ran away from her.

It is not a good idea to return to a woman who yelled at you and rejected you over and over and over again. It is even worse to have a child with a woman like that, because the child will be very scared to hear her yell- at you and at the child himself, or herself.

Stay away from abuse; don’t chase it.

anita