Dear IpkRO9:

There will be a next time, it’s about making the next time better, way better than the last time, by choosing thoughtfully.

“I always felt like he was home. Suddenly, there is no home”-

(1) it felt like home (safe, loving), doesn’t mean it was home, (2) it didn’t always feel like home, often and for long periods of time (probably more often than not), it did not feel like home during the years you were in a relationship with him.

Distinguish between what it feels like at times, and what it is, too much of the time: “there were some good times too with my sister”- but there were too many bad times, and “some good times” do not neutralize the many, horrific times.

anita

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