Dear Ishita:

I believe that you are stuck in a thinking/obsessing loop, that your brain is in the habit of thinking about X, particularly, wanting him to admit his fault. No matter how much you think about the topic of your obsession, no matter how many posts and pages you fill in with the topic, and no matter how many replies you receive-you can’t resolve the topic because the problem is obsessing on the topic, not the topic itself.

Even if he admitted his fault, it will not give you a relief for too long.

“I am unable to accept the fact he thinks it was all my fault and he had nothing to do with it”- the origin of your obsession with him admitting his fault is probably in your childhood, when you were blamed for being at fault but were innocent of the accusation/s. Your obsession is fueled by trying to resolve an old, old conflict, such as what I just suggested.

Like I wrote, there is no point in sharing about X and about anything related to X. You can continue to share about him, but I will not reply when you do, because if I do, I will not be helping you. Instead, I will be helping the obsession.

If you post about what is fueling your obsession which is in your childhood, and/ or ask for help regarding overcoming an obsession, I will be glad to reply.

I know that you are suffering and have been suffering for a long time, and I hope you overcome and get better and better!

anita