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Dear Ashmitha,
I’ve taken a look at your previous thread, from September last year. One thing that caught my attention is that between meetings, you only text with each other, since he doesn’t like talking on the phone. He video calls his cousins and friends sometimes, but he doesn’t video call you, right?
This to me could be problematic, because talking on the phone (if we can’t be physically together) is how bonding happens. If you like someone and want to spend time with them, you’d naturally want to spend a lot of time on the phone too, just talking about your day or telling each other sweet nothings. If he has a problem with that, it might be something to look into more deeply.