That’s a really good point I’ve never actually thought of it that way before, so yes usually what happens is I just start getting put off them, possibly from spending too much time together as most of my relationships we have seen each other every day, but then I do always get a feeling that I’m being a bitch to them (sorry for the language!) And I get a mixture of feeling not good enough for them or that I’m treating them badly which in turn kind of makes me distance myself and eventually it makes me not want to be with them and I just leave, this time I know I do want to be with him though!