Dear Iko9:

“I feel more optimistic about everything. I want to achieve my dreams, no more backseats. Now is the time”- I am thrilled to read these three sentences, you made my day, Ik09!

“I just want to write about all of you, the good people. The people who care. People who struggle, people who don’t give up and people who bring change”- this is who you are: a good person who cares, a person who struggles but does not give up, a person who brings change.

As you proceed, Ik09, please choose wisely the next young man you get invested in because when you were invested in the past, you spent so much time and so much emotional energy on the man, and the results: you were left exhausted and depleted. You need a man who is emotionally healthy enough to be able and willing to carry on a healthy, loving relationship with you, a man who will add to your mental health, not subtract from it!

anita