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Peoples opinions are just that, a view. Its more like a clenching or grasping at the view. Mine, yours, theirs…
In reality, they come up and go. Your pain. Your dad. My words. They hold meaning as they are pathways to truth, but they are as transient as we let them be, and as confusing as we make them. Tension to relief to tension to relief. Your condemnation fuels it! Said differently, the bounce is fueled by karma and we suffer. You, me and all of them have the same ability, but struggle with the same clenching in various ways. When we judge instead of unclench, we remain deluded, isolated, spinning.
There isn’t an exit from the maze, we learn to drop the maze.
With warmth,
Matt