Dear Murtaza:

Before I am leaving, maybe the reason sadness feels good to you is because feeling something feels warm, and feeling nothing (being dissociated/ detached) isn’t really a feeling but a state of non-existence of sorts.

Feeling sadness is a calm feeling, preferable to the agitating/ unpleasantly-exciting feelings of fear and anger. Sadness is preferable to all the feelings, I think- the calmest, least disturbing. Do you agree?

anita

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