Dear sossi:

If don’t think that it is possible for you to not have an adequate picture of “his true thoughts”, and yet, to have “the full picture of him”.

It could be said in regard to a baby who doesn’t yet have words to form thoughts, that you have a full picture of the baby even though you don’t know of his thoughts, but a grown man who has thoughts but keeps most of them hidden (“his true thoughts, which he basically seems to hide from everyone”)- makes seeing a full picture of him impossible.

You shared about him that “he needed stimulation all the time, ideas, sex, travel, friends, business and fun”, that he was innovative, creative, clever, energetic, erratic; childlike when it comes to women, afraid of women, easily influenced by women, blindsided by women, uses women (ex.: wanted you to work for his business for free); easily manipulated by his friends,  bullied by his friends, has mood swings, a temper, impatient and frustrated, insecure.

It looks like he is financially successful and that his financial success is a big attraction to the women in his life, and that his financial success has a lot to do with him being creative, clever, innovative, and very energetic- always on the go. Other than that, I have no picture of him at all.

anita