Dear Roro:

It is not helpful to say at this time, later- it may be okay. It is better to aim at communication as a bit at a time process. Think of communication like eating a meal with company: you don’t want to eat too fast and get choked or spill food all over the place, spitting ketchup on someone else’s dress, etc. One bite at a time, then put the fork and knife down and pay attention the people at the table, have a light conversation, then go back to your food. See my point?

anita