Because we are all humans and individuals, we are just as much alike as we are different. Our emotional wheels do not turn in the same direction or at the same rate of speed and because of that ‘hurt’ arrows effect us quite differently. So it is most imperative that when someone does hurt you enough that it goes beneath the surface of your emotional skin barrier that you do tell them so immediately.

I have often had to rethink about my own actions or words that I may have use that have the potential of hurting someone without my knowledge of doing so.
Making the other person aware will two things, you are releasing that negative energy that came to you and you are opening a window for forgiveness to pass through as well. It is always how you ‘react’ to a situation that will determine how you may ‘act’ to its final outcome. So take a breath before you do something that you will regret, erase all reasons you might want to retaliate or seek revenge.

I do wish you well and always walk in peace.