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Dear TeaK,
I’d also like to share about my city, especially about one of the reasons why i always said that i find it hard to find girls i’m interested in here.
So my city is a small city… like an island itself…. and my city isnt the capital in our country. You could say most highschool students in my city are most likely to take one of these 3 paths: uni in our city, uni in the country nearby (a city 45 mins by boat, like the girl i use to tell about), uni in the capital.
Unfortunately you could say that the “attractive” girls usually take the path of ‘uni in the country nearby or uni in the capital’….. and most of them plan to work in those cities.
Whereas me, as a fresh graduate i have to continue my family business and i have to stay in this city….
All girls under my age are all still in uni, even the one a year below me. As my country’s covid cases is rising now, most uni students are studying online… so all of those uni students are still in our city…
Idk when will they attend their uni offline… i guess it’s till the covid cases in my country decreases a lot, and i’m not sure when it’ll be.
So my hope is that those “attractive” girls will stay/work in our city after graduating uni (like they didnt get a job on those cities/prefer not to work there), but i cant predict them 😂. I knew this because i’ve checked most girls instagram to know what uni they attend, because i usually get to know girls from instagram.
Girls below my age by a year will graduate next year, below my age by two years will graduate in the next 2 years and so on…
I think this is the drawbacks of living in a small city in an island itself…
Is this me overanalyzing? 😂