Dear AP:

She has a soft spot for your children, that’s why she replies to them straight away when they message her. She never initiate a message to them because, seems to  me, she doesn’t want to encourage their attachment to her because she has no plans to get back with you.

You are deeply in love with her, and have been for a long time. Love is a beautiful thing.. until the person you love does not love you back.  It looks like this is the case: there is another woman in her life, and when you messaged her that you will be moving close to her (close to her and her new girlfriend), she answered: good for you. This message disturbed you greatly, and understandably so: she made it very clear in that message that you are on your own, that you are not part of her life.

Don’t let your love for her blind you, see the situation as it is, grieve and close your door on the hope and dreams of getting back together with her. How do you feel about what I wrote here (please tell me)?

anita