then why are you insisting that therapy isn’t for you, and that you don’t need it?

Because A. Im not anita, she only had a similar experience that made her understood me, i didn’t say she is like me

B. its not available, and the cost of making it available is too high for me, imagine working, and going all the trouble of making enough money to attend therapy online, which i hate, and ended up with a teak like person, who will projecte hie values and beliefs on me, without providing any arguments to why, no thanks.

C. its already too late for me, i got my answers, i developed apathy, i know how to live my life, and i don’t wanna change, so what’s therapy gonna do to me?

see that I don’t think I am superior, but that I was sincerely trying to help you.

I know you aren’t, i wouldn’t have continue to talk to you, but sometimes, the way you replay appears to be the case, but now that you said you don’t, i believe you, and i know you only trying to help, i just thought i could make you see my point of view.

That would feel much better than telling me that I am brainwashed

The only reason you think there is only one way to love yourself, is not because Objectively the way you said is the only one, but because you have been told thats the right way, and you didn’t bother to think about it.

that I think you are a loser and all the other stuff

No, people think that, in where i live, thats why i look online for connection, this is why there is no point of therapy, people won’t change, and its people the problem, not me, if you think otherwise, please provide a proof, a soild argument, no matter how much therapy i get, i won’t get connection, i won’t get love, those things are impossible for me where i live, so why life worth it?

because I don’t think that I am superior

This is on me only, i think sometimes you appear superior.

So you are projecting stuff on me, and then judging me and condemning me for things I never said or did

Im sorry if i did, but i didn’t mean you in my above posts, i was talkikg about the people from where i live.