“she saw you as part of that dangerous world and sided with the boy she needs to protect.”
This part makes sense I guess. At first she said that we’re still friends, that she cares about me and will support me. After a few days everything changed and now she no longer saw us as friends and dropped all her care an support but still wanted to keep some contact. Then later on she became very abrasive and angry and decided to cut the contact entirely, saying that it’s too painful and sad to interact with me (?) and also that she doesn’t want to stay in contact with me because she doesn’t want to do that to him (?).
It seems I became some sort of boogeyman in her eyes when it comes to him, and she was also suffering and crying a lot from what she lost; our relationship and her closest friend. It feels like she’s trying to force herself into that mood of separation and to “move on” from me as if what we had could be just swept under the carpet.
I wonder if she’ll come to senses and disengage herself from him soon, or it’s only going to get worse. Her friends mentioned that she’s been very quiet and evasive, acting unlike herself, barely engaging with them and she also kept everything about my former friend a secret from them.
But apparently she’s been sharing all my “flaws” with one of them and some things were either heavily twisted or just plain lies.
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