Dear Simon:

In your original post, page 1, you wrote: “on the outside you’d see mr successful father husband good guy“.

On your most recent post, page 3, you wrote in regard to your wife: “I swear at her and belittle her at work… I lash out with verbals” – well, that’s not a “mr. successful husband good guy” on the inside or on the outside, is it?

“I don’t mean to I have mental health issues” – did a professional evaluate you and diagnose you with specific mental disorders? Are you receiving any treatment, and do you believe that your mental issues absolve you from personal responsibility for abusing your wife?

anita