Anita,

Thank you for your reply.  I should not care what he does for a living.  But even if he was rich and successful, people will judge anyways because they would think we were snobbish and too rich for them to be around us.  Either way , can’t win. His job is not permanent, but I’m worried that if we want to have a future together, he would need to find something better. And how would I go about talking to him about that without putting him down?  He knows I make more than him.