Dear anita,

I just cant understand how the person you described would accuse me of cheating all the time. Isnt it controlling when someone wants to know where you are and who youre with and wants to check your phone?

Why would this person accuse of me of using her only for sex? or saying that i would not be interested in her life anymore when she locked me out of her life?

Why would this person be the defensive one in arguments, saying things like ,,thats just who i am” when i tried to tell her how distressing it was when she accused me of things instead of talking calmly about these insecurities?

Why would this person angrily accuse me of not wanting her anymore when i wouldnt want to have sex?

Why would she be such a different person with other people around her when compared to being with me?

I just dont understand. Did i really misjudge everything?