Dear anonymous:

You are very welcome. Yes, I think that your ache is forgivable. And yes, I think that you should not tell your partner and that you should move forward.

Since I mentioned the bible in my previous post, here is a scripture from James 5:16: “Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed“- you don’t need to confess the ache to your partner because it will hurt him and nothing good will come out of it. But you need to confess it to someone so to heal. It so happens that you confessed it to me, and…  I forgive you. Next time I make a mistake, I am okay with confessing it to you and asking for your forgiveness. Is it okay with you?

anita