Hi Alecsee

It sounds like you’ve done everything you can. You let her know how you feel. I agree, chasing and waiting is not a good idea. This situation is painful, but we cannot control the emotions and decisions of another person. She has to decide for herself what she wants.

You might owe her an apology for blowing up on her. It isn’t her fault that it was hard to read your message.

I can understand not being ready to commit so soon. It’s unfortunate that things have worked out this way.

What usually helps you refocus when you’re stressed? Do you do any self care practices?