Dear StoutHeartedMen

Do you as a group do any voulantary work or would be interested in doing so? Doing something purposeful is a good way to bond and heal a friendship group especially since normally no alcohol is involved so less chance of bad behaviour, maybe number 4 would excuse her self from such group activity or it could give her a chance to do something worthwhile.

I wish you luck and I hope that the rest of the group is supportive, but they may not be even if they do not like number 4’s behaviour.

Either way be true to your values  and ethics.

Roberta