Dear Lindsey:

It was wrong and stupid of him to take a personal photo of you without your knowledge- after you repeatedly said No to his earlier requests to take such photos of you. I feel angry at him for having done so! I can see how it triggered your sexual coercion experience with the ex-husband.

I am sorry that you are going through this (you didn’t need this added stress on top of being overworked) , and that you are going through this because of his carelessness. He owes you more than an apology. He needs to make amends: some action that will show you (more than in words) how sorry he is.

anita