Hi Tee,

Not really they said that the were totally gonna help me out, but nothing ever happened. I was thinking us going out as a group like we did back in June where they told him they were going to a pub with me and if he would join. He said yes even though he already had plans with his friends that day. And he ended up staying with us for long after he said that he was suposed to be else where and he did look at me later and said that this had been very nice and we should do it again. Going like that as a group made it easier for me to show more of my personality in the comfort of having my friends around. Because when I get to the point where i really like someone my anxiety kicks in, like I have to show my personality and who I am but I just end up paralysed and can’t even say hi to them.

Yes the girl adding pressure was the girl who asked him to join us at the pub back then. She works reception with him the other girl works café (like me) and bar as well as some reception shifts. She was asking questions about me and him and it made me way more nervous than I already was. Which unfortunatly didn’t help me with the yoga date, because by then my anxiety got so high I thought everything on that day was a negative. And also the reason i wrote him in a defensive way.

I haven’t told the two girls anything about what has been said between me and him since, and I have never told them the details of what happened on the yoga date.

Your right. And I feel a lot better when I am hanging out with my other colleagues than them. I know it wasn’t their job to set me up with this guy, but when someone tells you that they are gonna help you out and only not to be included when they go out as a group really hurts.