Dear Andypandy499:

“I want to know why she could not be honest and tell me she was leaving“- she could have been honest, I am guessing, but it would have been difficult and unpleasant for her to tell you that she was leaving, so she chose the easy way.

“She always told me that everyone in the past left her, and I always promised I wouldn’t be like the others, but it seems she decided to do that to me“- you promised her.. did she promise you to not leave you?

“She decided to do that to me. Cruelly without warning or explanation. Blocking me from her life completely“- she chose to do what was easy for her to do (no warning, no explanation), not thinking or caring about how it will hurt you: quite selfish of her, isn’t it.

“All I want is the chance to talk to her“- .. this would be too difficult and unpleasant for her.

“why she stopped loving me“?- there is a lot of pain in your question, and I feel sadness about the pain in these words, your pain.

The answer could be in making a distinction between her love and your love: if yours has been unselfish and hers was selfish, then it’s not the same kind of love that we are talking about. Has she been selfish with you earlier, before leaving?

anita