Hi Tee,

Yeah my parents were exhausted from dealing with my sister, so the didn’t have any recoursses left to deal with me being sick as well. Thf doctors did tell them that i would probably develope some sort of anxiety as a result of my sister being sick and the took my to a psycologist but didn’t really get any treatment apart from people forcing me to do exposure therapy which made it worse. My mom can’t talk about my sister illness(back when it was worst) without tearing up. She also has a lot of guilt that i be came sick.

She wanted me to come to her house to net her new boyfriend (when i was really sick) which I kindly declined because i couldn’t leave the house and when meeting a new member of the family you don’t want to be there making a bad empression when anxious and depressed. The next day i got the phone call from another girl saying oh your just passive aggressiv and trying to hurt your sister.

A couple of months later we went into lockdown and she was yelling because she was afraid that he would leave since they couldn’t visit each other. Then the final straw was me setting a boundary (to make it short at our hourse and eat cake at another place) she invited some people to come fix something at my parents but my mom was stressed and I was sick do thought having cake another place as a thank you to the guy fixing it would have helped my mom. Then she snappede and yelled she felt there was something in the tone of my voice (there wasn’t) and all hell broke loose. So me trying to help my mom actually made everything way worse, and ny dad refused to believe that there wasn’t anything in the tone of my voice. Her boyfriend wasn’t part of this it was the girl who made the angry phone call and I guy to fix something in the house.

No I wasn’t invited to her birthday everybody from my region was invited down to her place (they moved in together before this) but she excluded me under the pretext that we celebrate both her and ny dads birthday together. So my parents didn’t see it as me being excluded but rather a practical thing. My sister never wanted to share her birthday party with him before.

Your right he has barely had a chance to know me, so trying to show off my personality and that i am not a bad person would help.

Yeah lot’s of succes lately socially and more to come, been so busy so sorry for my very late reply.