Dear gettingHealthy:

“The neurochemical changes…  caused by the sexual activities I enjoy actually does reduce inflammation“- from what I read, the endorphins released during sex are natural painkillers (not anti-inflammatories); it is the increased blood circulation during sex that decreases inflammation. (But I will not be surprised if sex otherwise reduces inflammation).

“Open awareness, jhanas, mindfulness and loving kindness can also reduce inflammation over time“- good practices and another good reason to practice these things! “rubbing the ears“- couldn’t hurt.

“But the way you summed up my desires in a relationship helped me realize it’s not unethically selfish for me to want to have a partner and have them support me financially… if I’m open and honest while searching for a partner, I should one day be able to find someone who genuinely is happy to care for me in the ways I have a hard time doing, while I care for them…making it a win-win… this is the best course of action for me to pursue“- I agree and am impressed that you came up with this truth!!!

I will soon take a break from the computer, see you tomorrow!

anita