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Dear Robi1992:
You are welcome and I hope to read from you soon.
“Why do I ‘go back to sleep’ every time I re-realise this over and over instead of working on a strategy and speed up the process“-
– you asked this question in your 1st paragraph and answered it in your 2nd paragraph: “It amazes me how very often we choose to be uncomfortably comfortable“-
The process you mentioned in the first quote is the process of CHANGE, and change itself is more uncomfortable than the situation you want to change. We naturally avoid what is more uncomfortable and settle in repeat what is less uncomfortable.
“I often invest in things… and forget the most important ones. I wonder where I’ve learned that“- we all tend to invest in what brings us to a desired feeling fast. We are short-sighted this way: we’ll take a good feeling if we can get is fast, no matter it lasting only for a little while.
anita