I was sad to see that my post congratulating a member on their growth was deleted.

I find it funny considering all of the abuse I’ve flagged during my time here, mostly hasn’t been deleted. I think that you know Lori that some of the behaviour and things said on this forum haven’t been right.

This is a place that encourages healthy communication. Yet a simple positive message is unacceptable.

Members are encouraged to ignore each other, problems are ignored or swept under the rug. Yesterday the member suggested that they had hurt feelings.

I wanted to apologize for the discomfort that was part of a challenging journey. I wanted to congratulate the member on their development and reassure them that any previous problems were no longer an issue and affirm that there were no hard feelings with the individual.