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    Helcat
    Participant

    I was sad to see that my post congratulating a member on their growth was deleted.

    I find it funny considering all of the abuse I’ve flagged during my time here, mostly hasn’t been deleted. I think that you know Lori that some of the behaviour and things said on this forum haven’t been right.

    This is a place that encourages healthy communication. Yet a simple positive message is unacceptable.

    Members are encouraged to ignore each other, problems are ignored or swept under the rug. Yesterday the member suggested that they had hurt feelings.

    I wanted to apologize for the discomfort that was part of a challenging journey. I wanted to congratulate the member on their development and reassure them that any previous problems were no longer an issue and affirm that there were no hard feelings with the individual.

    #414780
    Helcat
    Participant

    I hope that one day the member sees me for who I am instead of how they feel. I used to hope that we would be friends.

    #414794
    tinybuddha
    Keymaster

    Hi Helcat,

    That was very kind of you to congratulate a member for their growth. I don’t generally moderate the forums myself (someone else handles that), but I DID agree with the moderator that new topics should be focused on questions for advice and support, not comments for individual forum members. I should have emailed you to explain instead of leaving you wondering. My apologies for not doing that!

    Lori

    #414812
    Helcat
    Participant

    Hi Lori

    I’m so sorry, I wasn’t aware that was a rule. It isn’t part of your community guidelines. Perhaps it should be updated to reflect your current policy? Are there any other policies that members of the community should be aware of what aren’t currently known?

    #414813
    Helcat
    Participant

    *that

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