Hi Helcat,

I apologize for my shortcomings in addressing this situation. I emailed with Anita because she and I have emailed many times over the years. Perhaps I should have emailed you too instead of posting here to learn more about your experience in all of this. Though I do believe it’s important to honor a “no contact” request, I don’t believe this situation is black and white or that there’s a villain here.

Regardless, Anita has asked me to remove her account, and I am going to do that now. You’re still welcome to email me if you’d like to discuss this further. I’m also planning to post a new thread about this, and I welcome additional feedback there!

Lori