Dear Katrine,

glad you’re doing fine. I’ve been struggling with some health problems for a while, so it’s not been great. I hope that I’ll find the proper treatment soon enough.

I am sorry about the situation with the had chef.

he doesn’t snap without a reason and that he is a good chef,

I don’t see how biting people, or not allowing people to take a toilette break is reasonable behavior, and not harassment. He may be a good chef, as in knowing how to cook, but he has poor people skills. It’s a pity that no one wants to speak up – probably they are afraid of getting fired. You said your guy had something in writing – could you use any of that as evidence?

I came back to find that the other guy had taken my spot (we found our own table away from the rest to get some privacy after drinking with them) said something like I wrote you or I’m gonna write you, my guy then went to smoke and the other guy stayed at our table. He retreated into his awkward self. Just sat there.

So if I am understanding this right, the guy you had a crush on came to sit to your and your new guy’s table, and told you he wrote you or that he would write to you. And then your new guy went to smoke and left you alone with the other guy? And the other guy proceeded to sit there, didn’t say much, and then you felled compelled to engage in a conversation with him?

If so, I find it rude and intrusive of him to sort of insert himself between you and your new guy and don’t give you privacy (because you said he sat there for quite a while). But I don’t want to make conclusions if this is not what actually happened and I misunderstood?