Hey Tee,

I am still not entirely sure what she is asking for still a lot of conflicting thoughts. She wants me to be there for her but with her withdrawals she just pushes me away and expects me to understand. The other night I saw her and she wanted me to leave because she was in a bad mood so I did. Once I got home she was saying she needed me and apologized but then was disappointed that I didn’t come back.

I do have the expectation that she will seek therapy but she hasn’t made any moves towards that or found work yet. She told me today she wants to go travelling which I really don’t see as a priority for her healing but I could be wrong.

I am trying to detach myself but just finding it hard. I’m trying to distance myself and she just sees it as me not wanting her. We have had little arguments so far this week because of her withdrawals. I think we are both miscommunicating a bit and she says she does need me but I can’t set the expectation that I’m going to drop everything and be there for her at the click of her fingers. It’s all very confusing.