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 anita
anitaDear Priyan:
You are very welcome!
“When I met her over the weekend, I casually told her that I am planning on going back to the dating apps to meet new women. She got excited over this and even offered to help me set up my dating profile. If her intent was indeed to get me interested in her romantically to gain control, why would she seem to not care when I said I am going to date other women?”-
“But why bother having me emotionally invest in her if she was going to friendzone me anyway? Then was it all a game to give her ego a boost?“-
– I think it’s a game for her. Going about dating the traditional way didn’t work for her, Going about it the way she is going about it works better for her: it makes her feel better, in control.. not vulnerable like she used to be,
“While my brain wants me to walk away, my heart wants me to continue seeing her even though it know it will end badly deep down“- it will end badly as you further lose control over the situation, getting ( more) hurt by a situation that is in the control of a woman who seeks control (as I see it)?
anita
 
             
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Though I run this site, it is not mine. It's ours. It's not about me. It's about us. Your stories and your wisdom are just as meaningful as mine.