Dear Blazkowich:

“Should I try to stay connected…?“- I think that it’d be best if you do not initiate any contact with her. If she initiates contact with you, you can talk with her then, but not before.

“Are my concerns regarding her health even valid?“- I see no valid reason to worry about her health. I think that you should focus on your health.

“Is there anything I can do to help her without burdening her?“- yes, you can help her by respecting her expressed wish to not have contact with you and do not contact her. If she contacts you, then you can ask her how you can help her.

And remember, you are in need for help at this point. Try to accept her choice with as much serenity as you can, and post here again any time you’d like to.

I am wondering, do you have any social support available for you irl?

anita