Dear Artico7

I noticed in your  last paragraph reply to Anita there were many “if” scenarios of a  perceived negative projected future .

How is this for a rethink. I am lucky, I am now free, I can now encounter a man who has a healthy connection to his family, who is kind and compassionate and I will be welcomed into the family just as I am and in the meantime I will fill my life with joy & beauty.  As you say these things note how you feel in your body & mind.

Kind regards

Roberta