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Dear Paradoxy,

If you still think that I am giving my compassion and understanding to the wrong people, that means u didn’t understand a thing about me

Well, when you say that your parents did everything right (except some minor stuff), it tells me you don’t really understand how badly they’ve harmed you:

My parents did everything right, except understanding emotional and mental health. There was no real physical abuse or any other form of horrible treatment. So far, my rebellious self had to find out the hard way that my parents were right about most things. But the things they are still wrong about is mental and emotional understanding etc. Everything related to emotions essentially because they cannot understand it.

Mental and emotional health are key for us humans. We are not robots. They abused you so severely that you ended up attempting to commit suicide. But after all of that, you claim they did everything right?

What did they do right? If they harmed a budding human spirit to the point of you wanting to obliterate your existence?

What is right in not harming your body if they crushed your soul?

My parents had good intentions, but their actions were wrong

It seems to me that their intention was to raise a slave, whom they will own and command what to do. Their intention was not to raise a free-thinking individual, who will be in charge of their own happiness.

So, dear Paradoxy, neither their intentions nor their methods were right.