Dear Alex:

I am trying to understand better, therefore I ask:

“She decided to be independent and make her own money and use men for sex as disposable goods. She is not capable of casual sex“- if she has been using men for sex, using men as disposable goods, how is it that she lacks the capacity to have casual sex?

“she is constantly critical of me, snaps at me, has a very foul mouth and calls me a loser, lame, coward etc. over minor conflicts“- I am sorry to read this.

Yesterday you shared: “I experienced divine love and joy and hope because of her“-

– where is the divine love when she is constantly critical of you, snaps at you, and has a very foul mouth?

“5. This is what I want. It’s like my prayer to god today. I’d like us to go to therapy and be honest…  Promise to be kind to each other, stop talking about our past to attack each other or hurt each other“- this would be wonderful, honest and kind.

anita