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Hi Chau
You value being treat with empathy and care. You feel like you’re not being treat that way at the moment.
For the relationship to move forward, it is not just about your needs. It is also about your partner’s needs. Your partner is responsible for taking care of herself and you are responsible for taking care of yourself during this break.
I’m sure that ordinarily if things weren’t strained between you she would’ve been there to comfort you.
On the plus side, she did talk to you when you did reach out.
This break is hard for you, but you were the person who initially suggested it. This whole thing is your idea.
Perhaps you are angry at yourself? You would not be in this situation if you had not suggested it.
Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏