Dear Dafne,

happy to hear from you!

How is your summer going? I hope you are doing better and that your spirits are lifted a little bit with better weather

Oh the weather is super hot, even too hot, and I am looking forward to going to holidays and splashing myself into the water 🙂 In fact, I am in the process of packing right now, so don’t have too much time to answer. But I would like to express my appreciation for your kind words, which truly warm my heart. I am happy I could help you and ease your struggles a little.

I will reply in a greater detail when I have more time, but for now, I just want to say that you dodged a bullet by not staying with your fiance. Because I can see that he was indeed using you as a maid and a care-taker for his (rather spoiled) kids, was restricting food from you, lying about his eating preferences, ordering takeaway for him and his kids, and nothing for you. Also, expecting you to cook for them – so to serve them, and in exchange to receive only breadcrumbs.

Also, he was telling you to keep a low profile, so not to provoke his ex-wife and make her cooperative with regard to the house:

He told me to not be too visible to his ex-wife (showing our pictures on social media etc.) so she wouldn’t claim the house.

Although he already decided to leave the house to her and the kids:

He told me that his house is for his kids and when he dies also for his ex-wife.

So he was manipulating you, trying to influence your behavior, although you wouldn’t get anything from the house anyway.

All in all, he is a very negative, deceptive, lying person, and you are lucky that he left you!

I must rush now, but will reply in more detail when I get the chance, hopefully soon.

Till then, take care, dear Dafne <3