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famo
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Hi Anita,

It’s great to hear from you! You’ve been such a help to me over the past four years. Having you here is like having that reliable family member.

I don’t think it’s because of repeated misunderstandings, because every time we talked it out and solved our problems. But now that you mentioned it, I remember being told by him that I’m too sensitive and that he can’t talk to me without second-guessing everything. I should also mention that this came from him because he thought he could joke and mess around with me like with other workmates(at work), but I’m not the type to enjoy joking around. I don’t know why he linked that to second-guessing everything in our relationship.

And about sharing his problems, he never shared anything with me. I have to keep asking and asking to get him to share even a little thing. It’s normal for me to talk about my family, and talking about this stuff means intimacy to me. Best friends always share information about themselves, so why not couples? Regarding my reaction, I see myself as a thoughtful and careful person when he talks to me. I try to listen more than talk every time.