Hi Clara

You might be afraid and see a break up as negative. For sure it would hurt and take some time to heal from. But you are a good person and deserve a partner who loves and appreciates you. If she cannot give you those things, breaking up is for the best.

In time you would find someone else who can give you those things and in the meantime you can learn to treat yourself in that way too.

You are strong Clara, it might not seem that way to you. But you survived a difficult childhood and came out of it ready to grow and heal. You are not letting it hold you back. Nothing can keep you down forever.

You don’t need to be ready for a breakup. It might not happen. Anticipating pain will not protect you from it. You are protected by taking care of yourself and treating yourself with love.

Love and best wishes! ❤️🙏