Thanks Helcat

Yes It’s a shame, may be I didn’t really think clearly about this.

She probably has always been like this, but has convinced herself that she wants a long term relationship.

I didn’t notice this as well. It is also possible that we just let the love feelings slip away, either I am overreacting, she is being oblivious, we didn’t manage these properly and our feelings just gone like that.

You may be right about the tattoo, I feel like I am having second thoughts today, because this seems like a pretty rush decision. It is as if I am trying very had to be another person, get a new tattoo, haircut, throw things away. I may have that inside of me, rather than I genuinely want a tattoo. I take this seriously as this is permanent, and I guess I always have a second chance. I did share my hesitation with the tattooist, and she is nothing but empathetic and understanding. She asked me to decide and do so unapologetically.

As for the pet, yes, I think I am happy with the adoption a lot more, and I like to change other’s life to the better, pets included

Talk soon

Thanks