I met this person nearly a year ago. We have mutual interests and similar views on things that are really important to me. But the more time I spent with her, the more I get a feeling that she do not really care about me, all that she is interesting in is whether her emotional and material needs are met. She is very, very sensitive to all kind of critique, she is sensitive overall.  The sensitivity that I mean is like that from a small child. I think this immature sensitivity is aimed to make other feel guilty or over caring.  When we are together in a group of mutual friends everyone and everything is centered about her, her problems and her wishes. It feels very off and I am not sure how others are not seeing this / or why others are ok with that. She also is very occuping and for her is being friends – Is a yes or no thing. Which means: if we are friends  than we will be constantly talking, texting, sharing all private stories. Otherwise – we are not friends. This aspect is making me feel discomfort, since I believe that not every thing can or must be shared with a friend.  I often thought about stopping having frequent contact with her, since being around her is associated more often negative than positive. But as soon as we stop talking I feel very lonely and try to get in contact with her again. On the long turn, I believe that it may be better for me to rather not try to stay friends with her. I don’t know what to do.