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    joeymee
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    after going out for a month last year november..we both fell in love to each other..hes 52 yr old divorced with a son and im 49 single mo of three kids..he has depression for 5yrs now..two yrs before he got divorced to his ex..he knows that im willing to help and support him in my own little way in dealing with his condition..we had sex once and we knew it was great last xmas day then the last we saw each othe was the day after bcoz he said he wanna be by himself. but he loves and cares for me he said..we seldom talk on the phone or texting..most of the time i knew hes trying to avoid me..but there are times if we have serious talk on the phone about his condition both of us cried..i always tell him i always love no matter his condition is but his reply is always like this..that hes afraid to try to love again..so what i felt now is…it freaks me out..especially those words he told me everytime were togethet..his plans about us..were dreaming to stay together for life..i dont know now what am i suppose to do and think…somebody out there please give me some advice..it hurts me alot everytime i think about him and our relationship would be gone to nothing..

    #48507
    Mark
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    Hi joeymee,
    I wonder why are you in love with this guy? What do you get out of this relationship? What about him that you love?

    Mark

    #48510
    Sally Gene
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    Try to meet in him person and let him know that he can trust you. Don’t pressure him, but listen to what he has to say. If he needs more time, let him know you’ll be there.

    But consider how long you want to wait. If you want a relationship and he cannot provide for you as much as you provide for him… consider taking care of yourself and removing yourself from the situation. Be a present support system, but also consider other options. You deserve love and support too!

    #48727
    Pooch
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    I’m not sure you can be much of a support for him. You still have strong feelings for him, so “being there for him” would not be a good idea. I think depression is something that he needs to deal with on his own.

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